fix(hyper-ref): expose disabled accessibility state for non-actionable refs

[ovalerio280788]

Summary

• derive a disabled flag for refs that have no actionable target (action, href, or non-analytics behavior action)
• pass disabled semantics to native wrappers by setting disabled on TouchableOpacity and accessibilityState.disabled on both touchable and nested text wrappers
• avoid attaching text press/responder handlers when the ref is disabled so Appium accessibility state aligns with interaction state
• treat behavior-level href as actionable so href-only press behaviors are not marked disabled

Implementation notes

• disabled state is computed from both ref attributes and press behavior attributes (action/href)
• nested text refs now skip onPress/onLongPress/responder handlers when disabled
• touchable refs expose disabled state through both disabled prop and accessibilityState

Evidence

Test	Platform	Recording
Appium DOM capture: disabled ref reports enabled=false	iOS
Appium DOM capture: enabled ref reports enabled=true	iOS	TBD defined if the PR makes sense