[SPARK-58987][INFRA][PYTHON] Faster parity CI, Rust coverage gate, and drop-in pyspark API fidelity - #54

Node.js 20 is deprecated. The following actions target Node.js 20 but are being forced to run on Node.js 24: actions/cache@v4, actions/checkout@v4. For more information see: https://github.blog/changelog/2025-09-19-deprecation-of-node-20-on-github-actions-runners/